According to Jack Nicholson, “If men are honest, everything they do and everywhere they go is for a chance to see women”. Mr Nicholson may be exaggerating, but it’s fair to say we guys love to have sex. Sometimes though, it can bring some unwanted stress into our lives. So if you want to know how to get great oral, improve your performance and avoid a penis fracture, read on.
How to last longer
Sex is not a marathon, but it’s not a sprint either. The last thing you want when you’re lying in a blissful, post-coital state, is for her to ask, “Was that it?”. If you want to become the king of duration try these sex tricks. Firstly, get her to go on top. Not only is it great to see your girl from another angle, when she is on top your penis is less stimulated. Ask her to go slowly too. Another trick is to get her to tease you. Have her stimulate you until you are close to climaxing. Before you orgasm, ask her to stop. This stop start approach will ensure you last all night long.
How to get more
Women are complex beings. Judging their needs is extremely difficult. There are some signs to look out for though. If your date exposes her wrists or neck, tilts her head forwards, touches her hair repeatedly or holds eye contact with you, it is likely she is giving you some subtle signs. Once you reach the foreplay stage, the stop and start approach works well. Begin to kiss her neck until her breathing quickens. Then stop. Talk. Then start to kiss her lips. Stop again. Do this five or six times; by the seventh she won’t be able to resist.
Don’t cheat
Although it can be tempting to stray elsewhere (74 per cent of men say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught) men who cheat are more likely to break their penis. Doctors at the University of Maryland found that half of their penile fracture patients received their breakages whilst having affairs. If you didn’t believe in Karma before, I’m sure you do now. To avoid breaking your penis, don’t be too ambitious when choosing a sex position. Make sure your thrusting is gentle and, if your lady is on top, ask her to avoid aggressive movements.
How to get great oral
It’s a sad fact, but 56 per cent of men are dissatisfied with their sex life, and one of the things most men wish they had more of was oral sex. The best way to get more is to give more. Sharing is caring in terms of oral pleasure. Sometimes women won’t give oral because they feel uncomfortable. If this is the case discuss the issue together. Reassure, but don’t pressurise. Finally, you could give her a few guiding tips. Ask her to start off slowly, whilst keeping eye contact. Then suggest to her that she uses her hands to grip the base of your penis whilst her tongue works the tip.
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How to improve your performance
We all boast to our friends that we are as good as it gets when it comes to pleasing our partner, but the truth is that 83 per cent of men believe their performance could be improved. Performing certain exercises will improve your performance. Your sexercise regime should involve: push-ups, sit-ups, pelvic tilts, dead-lifts, torso side bends and pull-ups. To update your tired, old sex positions, why not take some inspiration from yoga? Try out the Kundalini Yoga Butterfly, the Cobra and the Modified Wheel Pose.
Don’t worry
Sex can be a worrying and stressful experience for a lot of guys. There’s pressure on you to perform, to last, and then there’s also the tiny issue of size. It is an age old question, but one that causes a lot of men to worry; does size matter? It would seem that for the majority of women, penises are fun and exciting, regardless of their size and shape. Instead of size, women cite girth to be of more importance to their sexual pleasure. Also the average size of a flaccid penis is between 2.5 inches and 5.5 inches, so relax and enjoy it.
How to tell when she is faking
It’s one of our biggest fears, but how can we tell when she is faking? One sign we used to rely on was her high-pitched screams and gentle groaning, but boys, even this is not reliable. Research from the University of Central Lancashire shows that the noise a woman makes in bed does not correspond to her pleasure or her orgasm. So how do we tell when she is having an orgasm? Here are some of the signs: her heart beats faster, her breathing quickens, various muscles tighten, nipples become erect and some women flush red on their upper body.
