All the while, I kept seeing other women who actually were not as attractive as I am that seemed to get all the “hot” men. Not necessarily gorgeous guys, but the ones who took them to nice places and basically worshiped them and treated them like a queen.
What secrets did they know that I don’t? They didn’t share them with me and sometimes they didn’t even know.
Secret #1 – Confidence
Are you confident? And I don’t mean arrogant, it’s a different matter. A confident woman knows WHO she really is on the inside. She knows what she’s worth and doesn’t depend on a daily dose of compliments and reassurances to feel good about herself.
A woman that complains about being fat, for example, will turn men off. A woman that voices her insecurities too much will turn men off.
Men like women that feel gorgeous the minute they wake up in the morning – with their hair all messed up and in her teddy bear pajamas. If you really want to know how to make him want you, you should know that they like women who don’t get threatened if they don’t call the next day or the next hour, a woman who has a social life and doesn’t depend on them for anything.
Remember that you were meant to shine, and any man who will get a feel of your inner light will become powerless to resist you.
Secret #2 – Celebrate Being a Woman
Though we feminists don’t like it, men like to be men. They like a woman to be a little fragile, a little soft, someone who will arouse their natural tendency of wanting to protect and defend women. I used to be a tomboy, liked to swear like one of the guys. That brought many male friends to my life, but not many lovers. Don’t confuse this with total dependence on him. Be independent but celebrate your femininity, make him feel “like a man” and he will never let you go.
