Girls are famous for giving mixed signals. Sometimes they say something and mean something else, and other times they say so many things that you don’t know what they are referring to. Since this is a behavioural habit, it becomes difficult for a man to comprehend what his woman feels for him. Therefore, it becomes necessary for him to break down his girlfriend’s complex responses and behavioural patterns to know the truth. If you find yourself in a similar position, this is how you can go about deciphering her feelings for you.
1. Notice
A lot can be understood about a woman just by observing her. You need to notice how she behaves around you. Does she appear distracted, or is she keenly listening to what you say? Is she holding your hand or is she resting her arm on your shoulders or is she maintaining physical distance? These small things will give you a glimpse into her feelings for you. If she holds your hand, she feels for you. If she rests her arm on your shoulders then she takes you to be her buddy. If she maintains physical distance then she takes you as nothing more but a friend. The key to finding out what she feels is to notice. Practise it and you won’t be disappointed.
2. See how she responds
You can take initiative and express your feelings for her via your actions. For example, you can send her her favourite cake/flowers. If she immediately responds with a big thank you and can’t stop telling her friends about it, then she surely feels something for you. On the other hand if she casually responds with a ‘thank you’, then her feelings for you are restricted in the friend zone.
3. Talk about it
There is really no better way to understand what she feels for you than by talking about it to her. It would a great idea to meet her and discuss your true feelings for one another. Once all is out in the open, there will be no confusion and misunderstandings.
Before you invest too much in a relationship, it would be wise to figure out what her true feelings for you really are. This will save you unnecessary pain and embarrassment.
(via Mens XP)
