Whether you’ve just met your man or are in a long term relationship, this body language guide deciphers the meanings behind his actions.
1. He sets the mood
What it Means
If he’s the type who butters you up by lighting candles and putting on music, you’re psyched. A man who goes the extra mile to create an atmosphere is sensitive and understands what makes women tick. Expect him to focus on pleasing you with a lot of foreplay. Although soft-and-sweet sex sessions are nice, if you want to get down and dirty sometimes, you may have to direct the action.
2. During intercourse, he maintains eye contact with you
What it Means
He’s into you. When a guy locks eyes during sex, even for a few seconds, he wants more than just a physical connection.
3. He likes side-by-side sex.
What it Means
Men who like the closeness of side-by-side sex tend to need reassurance of a woman’s feelings for them. This sexual stance provides a lot of intimacy, which could indicate that he’s the sensitive and sweet type.
4. He likes woman-on -top sex
What it Means
According to a Cosmo sex survey, 53% of men prefer this chick-in-charge pose. These playful guys are always looking to have a good time, but they still know how to be attentive. Pleasing you is a priority, which is why they prefer a position that allows you to achieve orgasm.
5. His kisses and oral actions are super soft
What it Means
He’s a little nervous about how to woo you. It’s not that he lacks interest, just that he’s being more sweet than sexy in an attempt to prove his gentlemanliness.
6. He’s into missionary sex
What it Means
Men who prefer missionary tend to do things by the book, making them faithful, loving boyfriends who won’t let you down. If you like stability and tenderness, he’s your match.
7. He rolls away or unto his back postbooty
What it Means
Whenever you rotate your body 90 degrees from someone, you double the space between you. So he’s cutting himself off from your and creating distance, both physically and emotionally. Extend a new bedmate some slack, though — he may just not know how to give you the closeness you desire.
8. He sleeps facedown
What it Means
Studs who sleep on their stomachs have passion and energy. He’s a hands-on guy who tends to be punctual and successful. One caveat: His propensity to hog the bed space with his sprawling position suggests he might be a tad controlling.
9. He sleeps in the fetal position
What it Means
The scrunched-up snoozer is vulnerable and sensitive. After all, he’s guarding his heart. He might cling to a pillow for security. As such, he needs assurance that his feelings are reciprocated before he gives himself completely in a relationship.
10. he’s a spooner
What it Means
Although this confident guy is clearly crazy about you, he also may be a bit possessive. How can you tell? In this dominant position, his body is enveloping yours — he’s literally all over you. On the other hand, if your man pushes into you so that you’re curled up behind him, he’s a little needy and wants to be taken care of by you.
11. He likes sex from behind
What it Means
You’ll always feel looked after by this confident, take-charge guy. Still, he can be standoffish at times. In this position, you can’t make eye contact, so he won’t feel like he’s exposing himself emotionally.
(via Cosmopolitan)
