You’re young, experimental and open-minded.
You only live once.
So here are 10 tips for a totally awesome threesome (no one’s judging).
1. Be single
Avoid most of the emotional risk and try this when you’re free and unattached.
2. Use dating tools
3nder, Tinder, Killing Kittens. There are ways. Seek them out and use them.
3. Go bi
You might be on the squarer end of the sexuality spectrum but you’re going to have to open your horizons far and wide if you want to do this properly. Guys should at least get comfortable with kissing and touching another man.
4. Wear badass lingerie
We’ve all put on our Agent Provocateurs ahead of a hot date and wondered: ‘Is this too much? Do I look like a slut? Will it be too intimidating?’. Forget it, honey. You’re plunging into the deep end. So dress the part.
5. Enjoy yourself
The multiple sensations are the crazy/awesome thing about a threesome. More than one sexual favour from two different bodies at once. WOAH.
6. Don’t cuddle anyone afterwards
If you are the lucky third joining a couple and you’re sleeping over, just stick to your end of the bed. This guy or girl is not your relationship potential and you don’t want to upset anyone. Stay away if they try to spoon you. This ain’t about love.
7. Meet up before and afterwards
It’s smart to meet before to suss out if you fancy each other and discuss logistics. Afterwards, a courtesy coffee to see how everyone is doing (and see if you want to do it again!).
8. Use protection
The three of you are clearly pretty deviant in bed. You don’t know where anyone has been before and there’s no point risking your sexual health. You’ll be excited enough by it all so condoms won’t kill the mood.
9. Communicate
Will everyone have penetrative intercourse with one another? Is kissing okay?
Any positions you really want to try or definitely don’t want to do?
Any preference about where people finish or who goes first? Discuss.
Enjoy!
