You don’t have to seek perfection. There will be compromises. Love shouldn’t be one of them.
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I’ve been blessed in my life to have had great relationships. I’ve also had some…let’s say….less than great relationships.
It’s these not-so-good ones that have made being in love that much sweeter, and more appreciative of my husband. Sometimes in life we can’t get a clear picture of what we want until we first experience what we don’t want.
This doesn’t mean that you need to seek perfection in a relationship. That will only leave you baffled and frustrated.
But I do believe that while in life we may need to settle for certain things, love should not be one of them.
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Here are 50 things in a relationship that will have you saying “hell yes!”.
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A number one fan.
- Someone who constantly pushes you to be your best self.
- Late night conversations that feel like a slumber party.
- Mutual trust.
- Unwavering respect.
- Lots (and lots) of cuddles.
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Someone who can see you at your worst without pointing it out to you.
- Spontaneity.
- Laughing so hard that you pee your pants a little.
- Outside picnics just because.
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Intense intimacy. Sex. And the knowledge that sometimes they are two different things.
- Deep appreciation of each other.
- Coffee and pancakes in bed on Sunday mornings.
- Long walks.
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Someone who will stand up for you, especially when you can’t stand up for yourself.
- Lazy days.
- Passionate kisses.
- Popcorn and movie marathons.
- Someone who you can’t wait to see at the end of the day.
- A hand holder.
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A best friend.
- Someone who knows what you like and makes a point to get them for you.
- Lots of little (and big) surprises.
- Road trips.
- A new family.
- Luminous, loving eyes.
- Someone who will never forget your birthday.
- Love notes.
- Heartfelt confessions.
- Silly moments.
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Freedom to be yourself.
- Long, lingering dinners.
- Someone who will stand up for themselves when you know you’re getting out of line.
- Tiny heart flutters.
- Endless hugs.
- Venting sessions.
- Shared goals and dreams.
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Breaking the rules (occasionally).
- Nights of stargazing.
- Protection.
- New friends.
- Someone who will challenge you.
- Inside jokes.
- New adventures.
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Comforting smiles.
- Someone who knows what they want but isn’t afraid to be humbled.
- Back rubs.
- Devotion.
- Someone who knows your worth (and their own).
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Magic.
(via Good Men Project)