Sex is one of the most satisfying experiences, especially when you know how to wow your partner with toe-curling, bed-gripping moves.
Want to know the ultimate ways to turn your partner on?
Look no further, guys… here’s the hottest things you do in bed that drive us wild.
1. Make noise
There’s something liberating and primal about hearing your partner letting out moans, growls, pants, and even screams during sex.
It feels animalistic and raw, which makes makes us feel like a sex goddess, and super awesome that we can give you pleasure like that.
2. That gotta-have-you-right-now urgency
There’s nothing hotter than that knowing glance you and your partner give each other right before you rip each others’ clothes off.
Tell us with your eyes that you’re already undressing us in your mind.
Show us that you have to have us, right now, right here.
3. Build the excitement and anticipation
Once we’re hot and heavy, allow the excitement and anticipation to grow.
A great way to do this is to trace our bodies, concentrating on each part, as you slowly move from our collar bone, to our breasts, to our panty line, and then finally below the belt.
Getting every inch of us excited will put our sensation into overdrive, and get us begging for more.
4. Confidence
Even if you’re not very experienced, you can exude enough confidence in the bedroom to seem like a pro.
Give a wide smile not a nervous grim.
Feel assured and powerful with your movements, rather than testing and shy.
5. Don’t forget about our bodies
There’s many more places to touch than our vaginas, ass, and breasts.
Caress our curves, kiss our collarbone or neck, or play with our hair.
It makes us feel like our entire body is being enjoyed, rather than just what’s going on below the belt.
6. Lift us up
Put those muscles you’ve been working at the gym to good use.
7. Compliment us
We might not have the hottest ass you’ve ever seen, but you better tell us it is.
Encouragement can help us release our inner sex kitten. We’ll always enjoy hearing it.
8. Dominate
This may not be for everyone but taking control can be a turn-on.
Push your partner against a wall. Tell them how you want them. Tear their clothes off and talk dirty.
9. Listen
Every one is different, so listen to your partner’s moans to get an idea of her favourite hot spots.
If you’re unsure, simply ask where she loves to be touched, and what she enjoys.
10. Sweat
If you’re a little wet to the touch, that’s a total turn on.
It lets your partner know you’re enjoying yourself – and that you’re putting in as much effort as they are.
11. Experiment
Try touches that are fast, slow, gentle, passionate, tickling and rough, in a new place or at different times of day.
Incorporate a new toy, some role play, edible treats, or something kinkier.
It may surprise you what turns you both on!
12. Encourage
If your partner does something you like, tell her so she can repeat it. It’s just common sense.
13. Communicate
Just like we love encouragement, we also don’t mind a little kind critique.
Tell us if you want us to go faster, harder, or a little to the left. We promise we don’t mind.
Hell, if you were doing something wrong, we’d tell you. So go ahead, let yourself be heard.
