Having a threesome is one of the most common fantasies people have, and yet, despite their popularity, still hold an air of mystery and taboo.
Undoubtedly they are not something that most people indulge in on a weekly basis, however, there’s a lot to be said for the occasional flirtation with group sex, and three isn’t always a crowd.
Whether you’re shocked at the idea of an additional guest, or think that the more there are the merrier it is – here are 12 reasons why threesomes are awesome.
1. They’re naughty
While nobody should feel obliged to participate in acts of sexual deviancy that they don’t want to, there is something deliciously naughty and forbidden about a menage a trois – and it feels good to be bad once in a while.
2. Life’s too short
And you only regret the things you don’t do.
3. Many hands make light work
Anyone who has indulged in group sex will tell you that an extra body in the bed will lead to sensory discoveries you never thought possible.
*Mind blown*
4. Variety is the spice of life
It is widely believed that additional people in the bedroom can be a recipe for disaster when it comes to relationships. However, the opposite can be true.
So long as you are in a solid relationship, the threesome is consenting and boundaries understood, there is no reason why the occasional playmate can’t enhance a couple’s sex life.
Or you could stick to missionary in the bedroom for the next ten years … now *that’s* how to kill a relationship.
5. You can take a break
And not have to worry about how loud you are wee-ing in the en-suite, because the chances are your bedroom buddies are a little pre-occupied.
6. W**k bank material
Because who doesn’t have it in their list of top five fantasies.
7. Sexual bonds
And adult secrets … Oh go on, you know you want some.
8. It’s a reality check
Thanks to the likes of Facetune, filters and endless airbrushing, most people believe they are dramatically less polished/well turned out than the their peers.
Watching other people have sex, close up, without an edit, means that you’ll realise that, hold the front page, other women have ingrowns too!
And relax.
9. You’ll learn to multi-task
Ahem.
10. It’s a bit of a laugh
Which really is the bottom line.
A threesome isn’t something you should ever feel obliged to do or be bullied into it, it’s something which, when done by consenting adults, can mean hours of fun.
Sex is supposed to be fun, threesomes are supposed to be *very* fun.
11. You’ll push you’re boundaries
Which is surprisingly liberating and, in your post-double-coital glow, will give you no end of sexual confidence.
And make you realise that, God dang, you’re good in bed.
12. It’s something to tell the grandchildren
Or not.
