Maybe you’ve just met this guy, been friends with him for years or been dating for a a few weeks– regardless, there are telling signs that will let you know he’s really into you. Some of these seem incredibly obvious, and when they’re happening to you, there is no doubt in your mind that your man has fallen hard. However, sometimes when you’re not experiencing them, you manage to convince yourself that he’s more into you than he actually is. We’ve all been guilty at some point. Let this be your reality check. If you’re not getting the following behavior from your guy, you may want to think about where your relationship is going and if that’s a direction you’re okay with!
Or maybe I’m totally nuts! Let me know in the comments below!
1. He Makes You Feel Like You’re the Only Girl in the Room
Your friends notice, his friends notice and you can notice nothing but… and it feels amazing. It’s that nice rush when you catch him looking at you and your eyes meet for a second. Maybe it’s cheesy, but if that’s what you’re getting, he’s definitely falling for you.
2. His Eye Contact Lingers
Eye contact is one of the most intimate means of communication. It lets someone know that you are 100% focused on what they are telling you. There’s nothing worse than talking to someone who is staring off into space obviously distracted by something else. If he’s looking into your eyes, he’s into you.
3. He Remembers Things You’ve Told Him
You also know that he really listens to you when he remembers things from previous conversations. Sure, everyone is bound to forget details, especially if the conversation happens at 3:00am after a night of drinking. But if he really likes you and wants to impress you, he’s going to remember what you have to say a good 85% of the time.
4. He Cooks You Dinner
One of the biggest measures of how much he cares is how much effort he puts into your time together. Cooking a meal is super intimate and requires both time and energy. If he’s making the offer, he’s pretty committed.
5. He Holds Your Hand
Walking down the sidewalk, through a crowded bar, hanging out with his friends. If he’s holding your hand, he is proclaiming to everyone else around that he’s there with you and not afraid to show it.
6. He Compromises His Schedule to See You
So many times guys want you to operate on their time tables with an attitude that says, “If you want to fit into my life the way that I want you to fit in my life, then we can do this.” When he is willing to be flexible and work around you some of the time, he’s legitimately interested.
7. His Friends Tell You Not to Hurt Him
The title pretty much says it all. If his friends want to make sure you really care about him, that means they can tell how fast he’s falling.
8. He’s Affectionate and It’s Not Just Sexual
It’s one thing for a guy to be affectionate after a session in the sheets. It’s another thing when he’s affectionate when he’s not expecting it to turn into sex. If he’s kissing your forehead, wrapping his arms around you and nuzzling up to you outside of the bedroom, he really wants you.
9. He Tells You Embarrassing Childhood Stories
Part of really liking someone means trusting them and making yourself vulnerable. If he’s telling you embarrassing stories from grade school or middle school, he’s really opening himself up to you. Reciprocate! He’s giving you permission to trust him in return!
10. It Takes Him 10 Minutes to Kiss You Goodbye
If it takes you ten minutes to say goodbye, it’s the real deal. You’re probably going to shut the door, giggle and maybe do that silent scream crazy girl dance!
11. When You’re Automatically Invited to Everything
Whether it’s picking up groceries, grabbing dry cleaning or going out to watch the game at the bar, he wants you there. When his mom comes to town or when he has an intramural playoff game, you’re there. Yeah, he’s fallen for you.
(Via College Candy)
